What is Mentoring?

“A mentor is someone who helps you grow your skills, make better decisions, and gain new perspectives on your life and career… By having someone who knows more than yourself share advice, offer guidance and be a sounding board for your thoughts you stand to benefit from experience beyond your own.”

Together, Inc.

Mentoring is a supportive learning relationship.

Informal mentoring relationships often start out as simple friendships, and mentoring happens without structure or oversight. Informal mentoring can also occur when someone independently chooses a mentor because they trust them and seek their expertise and advice.

Formal mentoring relationships can be established through organizations and come with formal training and expectations. These mentorship programs may require a time commitment, learning objectives, and key activities, and typically include regular meetings over a set period of time.

Although mentors who work with libraries are often volunteers from the community, the role and responsibilities of a mentor go beyond that of a generic “volunteer” position. Successful mentoring experiences are usually mutually beneficial. Mentors may be motivated to develop leadership skills and to share their knowledge, while mentees may benefit from the support, inspiration, and agency they receive.

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Worksheet #2: Your Experiences

Have you ever been a mentee, or experienced a mentee-like relationship with someone? How would you complete the following reflective prompts?

  • When I was a mentee…
  • I learned…
  • One thing that could have improved my experiences as a mentee was…

Have you ever been a mentor, or experienced a mentor-like relationship with someone? How would you complete the following reflective prompts?

  • When I was a mentor…
  • I learned…
  • My mentee learned…
  • One thing that could have improved my experiences as a mentor was…